Written by Sikuku Getrude. 2012-07-13 15:11:00 Read 1373 Times

This is all about someone whom you have been in love with, have spend time together shared your worst and best moments with, planned about your future together and now just doesn't want a close relationship with you anymore.

It happens from time to time and it’s the worst part about dating, and shocking news too.

Being deserted by a loved one doesn't strike once in one's thoughts because in most occasions the one who has dumped you have been thinking of doing it for longer than you can imagine. It appears that your partner has suddenly thought about it after an argument or minor incident but actually, the thought have been in their minds for quite a while.

The worst ones are leeches who tell you it is over when out for  dinner in a restaurant or at a party so that you don't have the opportunity to say what you really want to, or when they just go silent and they neither make a call or receive yours meaning no communication.

Most men who are cowards do these since they don't feel free to open their heart when things break loose.

Certainly the deserter is being heartless in some ways and they don't have interest at heart, only their own, which is why they try and sugar coat the situation by telling you how your future will be so positive without them. "...I’m not the best...I think you deserve more than me," such words which are meaningless.

When dumped:

Allow yourself to be angry with the person who dumped you and mentally dump them.

Give the person time to say why your relationship has ended but give them little in return. They want you to forgive them but just tell them its fine.

Don't believe the reasons you're given when you are dumped as you may be being lied to.

Don't dump them first even if you spotted a trial run though.

Remember the person who dumped you lost you. He will never meet anyone like you again.

Never hung out where you can meet your ex. if you accept him back you are playing with fire.

Allow yourself a mourning period.

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