Calling a spade a spade has never been easy to many but it is high time we start reading between the lines. The Turkana Oil discovery is truly the best news most of the Kenyans could think of but according to my analysis it is not to some women who until they find a man in their life everything seems to be going wrong.

If you think Men are not of value then you should take a step to go out on weekends in a club or even a church. Women including the educated and most successful ones would go out in a quest to be noticed by a man and if all doesn’t go well at times the man could be approached either with a “can I buy you a drink” offer or “you are really a good dancer.”

Many would not belief this but to many women I have spoken to on the subject, they explained to me that it looks like there is a shortage of men in the market and one even revoked the famous saying “Everyone for himself and God For us all”.

Women are now the men in the game and most of the time they are the ones who seduce men either directly or indirectly. The many initiatives of Non-governmental organizations and the government to create awareness about being faithful is one of a kind, since for one to remain faithful in a marriage with many women out there to seduce men it is very troublesome.

Beautiful ladies are fond of using beauty to their advantage to get the high and mighty men. Many employed men would tell you that since they started working, their lives have been very challenging with every woman knocking and willing to try out a relationship with them.

Truth be told, how long does it take for ladies to prepare and do their make ups? As much as everyone wishes to look good and very presentable at times it goes overboard when they frequent washrooms to do recaps of the same make ups all in the name of looking good especially to men who have always been the centre of interest.

The society over years has tried to empower women to rise to the occasion and be self reliant and independent. The exercise has led to men ending up to be cowards, for if the lady is way too wealthy than the man many would feel uncomfortable to date the lady. Self esteem in men and any other human being is crucial and anytime one feels to be compromised he/she will always shy away from the responsibility.

Just like any product in the market, the brand of the product always matters and the dark, tall and handsome qualities are truly gone, with the financially stable quality coming first to many women. The heated debate on men battering in central province is alleged to have caused the demand of both Men and Women from the region to slightly depreciate, No man wishes to be battered and no woman is willing to associate themselves with men from the region who have believed to be drunkards and unproductive.

Do you think Men are a treasure? Or do you think women are?