Tips on how to win a woman’s affection
Hardly a day comes to an end without heart breaks, lovers jilting one another, marriages hitting a snag and in fact most of these love affair finally leads one into committing suicide.
These suicidal affairs are triggered by massive acts of unfaithfulness, disrespect, unruly behaviors, untidiness, lack of commitment and ego amongst other things.
I dare say in plain truth that matters of the heart is a two way traffic, in this case both parties in order to lay a firm foundation that will lead to a union must embrace communication all the time.
It will be heard to strike a rapport with a nagging woman or a man who frowns every second but it is a sacrifice worth trying for a marriage or an affair to stand the taste of time .
Few men will bow down and accept a mistake like sending an ex-girlfriend a text but no man will accept having slept with another man’s wife lest you catch him pants down .
Many problems are affecting young relationships and at the end of the day, the most affected if not jilted are women and one asks why are they so vulnerable to men tricks and the double dealing vocabulary?
Women are beautiful flowers that should be taken care of at all costs. This is where a good number of men fail to grasp! A woman needs totally love nothing but total love.
When a woman is loved, cherished, furnished with gifts, presents and surprises then she tends to built an ending trust on such a man.
Men should learn to surprise their women with flowers, chocolates, sweets ,clothes ,shoes and handbags, these among others are the most cherished things loved by women and girls.
Men, do you really want to win a woman’s affection, why don’t you try the following .
Surprise
This is the most vital ingredient in love matters, take your woman out for lunch, dinner or even for a retreat, it includes purchasing little by little most of the things she holds dear like bangles, neck less, earrings hand bags and bras.
This I tell you point blank will move mountains. Just go for what you can afford don’t overspend and live beyond of your means because of her.
Total love
No one is as jealousy as a woman, she has to come first always, forget about your ex girlfriend who took off when you went bankrupt, love the present woman in your life and learn to always kiss her in the morning and tell her she means the world to you. Nothing gladdens the heart of a woman than the very simple word ‘I LOVE YOU’ note this word should be the driving force in an affair.
Support
Dear men, like seriously it is not always about financial support! It could moral support or something else, support the strength behind the woman.
She will press on strongly knowing that you are always there to support her, provide a shoulder for her to lean on. Boost her business and make her an independent person who would not rely on you every time
Communication
This is the mother of all the ingredients of love on earth, be the man ,go and reach her when she is depressed, hug her, wipe her tears and comfort her, do not be harsh try and inquire what is upsetting her ,swallow your ego and be the man.
Cheer her up and she will tell you everything you will not believe it .
Men should be men, play out your role no matter the situation, I say again be the man and strong as if all is well. Be the friend and her confidant, kindly desist from discussing her weakness with any other person.
Identify a sweet or a pet name to call your woman, when she is down and like sulking the whole day just flush the name out and she will smile.
Provide
By the way women hate those men who takes them for sugar mommies, provide and stand up for your responsibilities, ‘a man is an effort’.
Never embrace the act of lending money from her, you look incapable of taking care of her, unless you are in a fix do not ask for her monies.
If you decide to get married or enter an affair be ready to provide.
This is where many women will say oh no I better stay on my own, he cant even provide!!!!
I am pretty aware, there are thousands of love ingredients but please try the above five, results are just in the pipeline, all the squabbles will be reduced to zero.
If life gives you love, then love as if there is no tomorrow.
