Most people enter relationships with high expectations of being together happily ever, never imagining that the relationship may once come to an end.
When entering a relationship you should first ask yourself on what might happen if that relationship fails to work out probably when it comes to an end.
You should bear in mind the do’s and dont’s when your relationship hits a snag.
The end of a relationship no matter how long it lasted is intense and difficult, one finds him/herself in a confused state and may fail to know how to go about the recovery process.
Below is what you should to do and what to avoid doing when a relationship fails
Let your emotions loose- If it’s crying do it, through this you will get out of the pain that you are going through.
Give yourself time- Don’t rush into a new relationship in the name of hurting your ex because this will frustrate you much and chances are the relationship will also fail getting you into another painful experience.
Out of frustration, you may begin a new relationship with a person who is worse than your ex therefore take your time before entering a new relationship.
Remember the things that made your relationship end– It is normal to wish your ex to be back by your side, if it yourself that led to the failure of your relationship you have less to do.
Therefore remember the bit that your ex once hurt you and understand the decision to call it quits was the best thing for you to do, this will enable you move on without pain.
End communication with your ex completely– Be it texting, chatting or phone calls cut all this ties.
Even if you had connections with his / her friends, family members or relatives stop communication with them for this will tempt you to ask how your ex is doing and can easily revive the pain you endured.
Keep yourself off social media- Perhaps you may log in and find that your ex has already gotten a new catch and he / she has shared the pictures on social media having replaced you this will hurt you completely therefore doing away with it for a while will help you in one way or another or rather blocking him / her will also help you because you will not come across his / her pictures.
Do things that might not remind you of your ex- If you are a lady and your ex never loved short hair let that be an alternative, for a man if your ex never loved certain dressing code change to that this will keep him/her away from you.
Make your place your own- If you have been living together make that place now belong to you by removing all things that belonged to your ex.
If he / she ever bought flowers, curtains etc remove them and put yours.
If changing the position of the bed in your house will help you do it. Do whatever you feel to make your place look new and suit you alone.
Spent more time with friends- If your ex could not allow you socialize with other people now it is the time.
Utilize it to the fullest joke and laugh around for this will enable you forget fast.
Go out with your family members – At times you might be in a relationship and find that your partner can’t allow you have time with your family members then spent most of your time now with them. They will help you relax and reconnect.
Start doing new activities– If you were going out in the gym in the company of your ex then change to other activities for instance knitting, playing chess etc.
Find peace on your own– Try reading novels, singing hymns and keeping yourself busy.
When you meet new people who have interest in you and ready for a date go but don’t set high expectations.
Never indulge in alcohol – This will cause you become an addict and worsen your problems.
Never isolate yourself- This will lead to much depression that may result to serious problems.
All in all never let somebody who doesn’t appreciate you ruin your life, life is short if it is over never cling on because you don’t know what is ahead of you.
Finally never limit yourself in doing things because of a failed relationship.